“Are we wrong for not caving or catering more to our out-of-town guests?” (Photo subjects are models.) - Getty Images/iStockphotos My kid has her bat mitzvah in February. My wife’s family is from out ...

'If we do let them pay for something small, my wife is worried that my in-laws will see it as a sign that they have permission to take over' "Are we wrong for not caving or catering more to our out-of ...